I love to skip sideways and swing my arm and with timing and balance hit a ball. A beautiful whack sound and the ball flies over the net and bounces on the court. It feels good. It feels so good I don’t even think about it. It feels instinctive, natural and relaxed. I must be playing pickleball.
It is now the turn of the lady on the
other side of the net. She moves smoothly and gracefully. She skips towards the
ball swings her arms and hits the ball back towards me. I skip towards the ball
swing my arm and hit the ball back over the net. The ball bounces back and
forth between us. Connecting and joining us as we dance around the pickleball
court.
I love smashing away a volley. A winning
shot where my opponents watch the ball fly undeterred and unhindered. I get the feeling my opponents also love
smashing volleys away for winning shots.
In this pickleball dance we both have the
opportunity to hit winning shots. To smash
a volley for a winner. A volley smashed away results in both of us watching
where the ball lands; one of us saying good shot, muttering silently, trudging
after the ball, picking it up while one
of us smiles proudly.
When I stand on a pickleball court I need
other people on the court with me. Today there are three others on the court.
Without them I wouldn’t be able to dance around the court. Without them I
wouldn’t be able to stretch, turn and twist. I appreciate and thank them for
turning up, picking up a paddle and moving onto the court with me.
My mind wanders. Back to when I was a
child. I copied my mother. I copied her actions and watched her emotions,
actions, thoughts. I clapped my hands
when she clapped her hands.
As an adult my mental and emotional
health benefits from watching and copying other people. Choirs, music ensembles,
drama, dance, bridge are all good for mental health.
Team sports such as soccer, netball,
hockey, basketball, volleyball and pickleball are all good for mental as well
as physical health. Team sports involve being aware of other people. When I
play pickleball I watch, anticipate and guess what my opponent is going to do. I
then react. When I play pickleball I want to beat them. I try to avoid their strengths and exploit their
weaknesses. I alter me behaviour because of their behaviour. I give and I take.
When I play pickleball my opponent benefits just as much me. They are trying to
beat me.
All sports have official rules and
unwritten rules. The unwritten rules are so everybody wins socially,
emotionally and mentally.
I will now list my idea of what my
unwritten rules of pickleball might be:
Everybody calls the ball on their side of
the court. All the calls will not be perfect. The aim is for perfect behaviour.
Which is accepting all calls without questioning. Not perfect calls.
Standing and arguing where the ball has
actually landed is not good pickleball. A greater good is served by accepting
all calls. Accepting all calls without comment outranks where the ball lands.
If ball or serve is out/fault call
out/fault immediately. Don’t hit the
ball back; wait for rally to end and then say the ball was out/fault.
If any doubt about where the ball lands
then it is in and play continues.
A ball lands on court from another play
the point again. Always. Irrespective of the rally.
The server keeps and says the score
before serving.
Don’t smash the ball directly at your
opponent.
Treat other people the way you want to be
treated.
If your opponent hits a good shot then
say good shot. If your opponent hits a bad shot then say nothing.
If you hit a good shot then say nothing.
If you hit bad shot then don’t say what you think.